You have 10 years gave his work, but increase again passed by you? Colleagues are keen to support Your ideas, offer help and take part of Your problems, but happy to dump on You? Tell why this is happening and how to change the situation.
As you know, most hard-working at the farm has always been a horse. But the Chairman no horse did not become.
Let’s understand how our body, namely the peculiarities of the reactions of the brain and biochemistry of physical processes can serve the noble goal of gaining success in society and career.
Some people are easier to gain success and recognition?
Attractiveness is what lies at the basis of success of every person, whether man or woman. But not in the meaning of sexuality, although that is also important, if we are talking about success with the opposite sex.
When it comes to building a career, the attractive people we call those who are his energy has to itself. Other things being equal they will always prefer other candidates in employment, their ideas will burn the team, people will be attracted to them as to the sun.
Being in their field, we feel coming from them confidence, calmness, positive. Such people quickly move up the career ladder. But many are mistaken, considering that the attractiveness is given us by nature, and it does not affect. It is possible to learn, if you understand what processes in our body affect it.
Mirror neurons: how the environment affects your success.
In 1992, an Italian neuroscientist was discovered mirror neurons – unique brain cells that aktiviziruyutsya when we follow the actions of other people. If the person next to you raise a glass of water, your brain activates the same neurons as if you did this to yourself. The same thing happens with emotions. When we see the facial expressions of another person, in our brain aktiviziruyutsya neurons that are responsible for these emotions.
When we choose to be around negative, insecure people, our brain automatically triggers the same feelings and attitudes. But if we surround ourselves with energetic, motivated, happy people, you will unconsciously copy, and then radiate these States.
We copy not just actions but also thinking strategies, attitudes and, as a result, the picture of the world, which is inherent in our immediate environment.
Hormonal magnetism: how to program your body for success.
Any action, event, emotion always provokes in us the release of a hormone. Noticed that people with serious hormonal disturbances, often touchy, apathetic, anxious? With such people want less contact, they want to be. Often referred to as repulsive, though outwardly the person may be tidy, but in the behavior to comply with all canons of communication. Just “energy heavy”, we say. In this case, the promotion cannot be considered. Who needs a whiner subordinate or “crushing” of the head?
Make friends with the dopamine – he is responsible for our energy. Exactly its deficiency causes increased anxiety, deficit disorder, and self-doubt. Movement to the energetic music, jumping, running and, most importantly, the quality of sleep – all this will help you to maintain dopamine levels to normal.
Endorphins – our happy hormones. They are produced in response to stress, not allowing the person to dive into a deep depression. And each time, passing through a difficult situation and your fear, you become “endorfinov attractive” (see also: “How to overcome fear of a new problem (and solve it efficiently)”). Make an effort, overcome your fears is profitable!
Lack of serotonin manifests itself through apathy, lethargy and self-doubt. It is, of course, not “naprygalis”, but by eating foods that contain the amino acid tryptophan (bananas, nuts, sesame, fish, cheese), you’ll be able to bring him back to normal.
To be attractive – is as much a habit as to drink a glass of water in the morning. It is possible to develop. Throw yourself a challenge, try a new (great achievements, as we know, outside your comfort zone), monitor your condition and surround yourself with people whose qualities enhance your. And then, you will succeed in any business!