On an unconscious level parents passed the psychological inhibitions in the child. Some of them degrade her interaction with other people.
This writes the Ukrainian psychologist and psychotherapist Maria Fabricia, informs RBC-Lite.
When parents every time not allow her to be herself, then they drive it into the framework that subsequently formed in the personality.
The psychologist noted that the child’s relationship with other people or group, influenced by three of the ban – “you don’t belong, don’t be close” and “don’t be a child.”
The prohibition “you don’t belong, don’t be close” and “don’t be a child.”
Men with the prohibition “you don’t belong” feel uncomfortable in any group of society. It is difficult to communicate in a group, so they prefer to be alone. Such people do not belong to attachment.
The prohibition “do not be friends,” creates unnecessary fear in the relationship. This can occur to a new level. For example, when a person feels comfortable before his marriage, and then becomes jealous, exacting, and the like.
Men with the prohibition “don’t be a baby”, far from creativity and spontaneity. They must have a plan of action that they think through all the details. Another consequence of such a ban – people can’t relax, they must conform to certain templates.
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